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There is a fine line when you use the law of attraction .... Is not that annoying, that one way around this issue, or one, but in truth there is a fine line between helping a child to believe , in "" you can do, "and realistic goals. There is a fine line between supporting a child to be in the here and now, the real world rather than a fantasy world, and yet helps them to achieve the objective, just a little past the comfort zone. The Law of Attraction is fantasy and reality, which is why I'm talking about a fine line. It is a Fantasy (visualization), which you treat as a reality (the idea that you already above.) It works because your subconscious does not know the difference between fantasy and reality. not even a small child. This is one of the complexity of the application of the law of attraction.

Until the age of five or six, the school with a child to know that they do not have a fairy godmother, she can not fly, and dragons are not his, according to the school. The school expects them to be ready to learn that the fire brigade fires with water or fire extinguishers, and that they are in the fire on a fire truck. Magic is not included in the price. They expect the children to be ready to learn that bread baked from a combination of yeast, water and flour, and that they are without the requirement of a magic wand. They expect a child to be ready to learn that if they discover something that they dominate, and that they do not all know born. Welcome to the world of reality and with the law of attraction. Her parents do not have a magic wand, or, or?

"" I can not! ""

I'm always in trouble when I hear a child say: "I can not" when he / she has not even a real try. I repeat, know that I am very desperate, when I hear a child say: "I can not" when the evidence they have not become a fair try. Learning is a process, and sometimes a difficult process, so the question is, what his idea that he should be able to do the task without needing to go through the learning process? Magic and the Law of Attraction? A spirit is omnipotent stuffed into a baby's body and they are born to one or two human parents. It takes a while until they understand that they and their parents, are protected by the new rules and boundaries are sometimes difficult. It is better if they are compatible with the law of attraction with their colleagues. What do I mean by that?

Have you ever clock children without parents or TV play? It is the same as if they learned to walk. The process is a natural one. Children see what their peers can do, and then compete. A child runs faster, and another child tries to catch him.

Three children ride their bikes up the hill, and the other children who used to get out and go up the hill, is working harder than ever to stay on the bike all the way up. This is consistent with the law of attraction. He visualized the process with itself on the wheel, he feels, what he want and then submit it to do. If this child is two years younger, he will be the first to dominate his age group, the hills and the feeling of confidence and success with its peer group the hunt for his services.

Five children are from a rock quarry cliff jump into the soft green waters below. The last child who is afraid of heights, fear of his master and his colleagues with his eyes tightly closed. He could land wrong and slap his side or back, but the redness is an expression of courage. His colleagues oh and ah and congratulate him. The next time he can keep his eyes open, so that the landing is less painful.

Back to the child who says, "I can not. "" I've never heard a kid say to his peers. He says it is for adults. The manner in which the adult responds, as this child with difficulties for many years to come.

You have the choice. You can use your child incompetence, or you can help him learn what it is to master a new task. When he and his peer group, and sees them doing something that is difficult, he sees that it is possible. If he is with them, he does not see how a "little man" could do what it is you want him to do. Their task is a little harder because you have to give in on the desire to do something he did not want to do, and a vision for success.

This is consistent with the law of attraction.

How do you awaken the dream or desire to learn, a Karate Kata? He will do it, to please you if he knows that you expect. How do you awaken the dream or desire to learn to swim? This is easier, I think. You can swim to see how much fun when you play in the water. Play with your partner. Now, with some older children. Your child will learn that your family swims, and wants as part of the family. It will be the water in the face, and choking from swallowing or snorting a little water and the burning of too much water in the eyes. This is consistent with the law of attraction. It will be worth it to a share in the fun that he sees that you are familiar with. If you sit on the beach with a book, and the older children in your family sit on the beach, your child can not learn to swim. It is simply not possible to be awakened in the vision of your child swimming in the deep water, if his family does not swim in the deep water. It will be very difficult, as the water is fun when all others sit on the beach. This is consistent with the law of attraction, because without the vision, he will not.

Reading is the same process and requires the law of attraction. If your child does not see, read for pleasure, so that the development of a vision, how will he come to believe that it is enjoyable? You might be lucky. He could be a babysitter for pleasure reading or a neighbor or a grandparent. But if no one in the life of a child is reading in the evening, he will only learn to read well enough to avoid embarrassment at school. Just as with the swim, without a vision of reading for pleasure, he has no desire. This in turn is connected to the law of attraction, unconsciously and in the negative.

Your fears and dreams will add themselves to your children. That is the law of attraction. If you are afraid that they are violated, and this is accompanied by a great deal of sense, they are injured. If you feel the joy of discovery and mastery, they will continue to discover and new challenges. If you feel confident about their ability, they feel confident and move forward to the championship with every dream.

The Pleasure Principle:

Children on the pleasure principle. This is also the law of attraction is not it? When Jack Canfield and Mike Dooley stress it is only when you feel model, joy, hope or ecstasy, that your dreams will become manifest. Children feel the greatest joy and satisfaction when they smile at their parents, but the smile is more than just a smile with your mouth. You must be smiling with the eyes and the heart to touch a real baby.

You know. If you have a dream, and the family or friends recommend that you do everything you can, but if you hold it like this, it is crushing. The Law of Attraction coach or master will tell you to stay away from your family, or at least, not talking with them about your dreams. It is difficult enough to hold a vision of the future abundance. If the people you care about are either fun or do you say it is not realistic, it makes it much more difficult. Napoleon Hill instructs you not to talk all about your dream other than the Master-mind team. Wallace wattles tells you not to speak for everyone at all about your vision!

Children follow this principle when the law of attraction. You do not talk at the beginning. They learn to smile and you smile back. They learn their arms and legs, and you smile back. They learn to sit or promotion belch and smiles at her. They learn to stand and walk, and you make a huge big deal out of it, and they are happy. You see, you smile and sitting and walking, and they want just like you. They have learned how to be successful.

If you are ready, your child, how is it that he is already with three or four years old, an attitude that there is something that is not possible?

It's the little things

Your child jumps on the bed, and someone says to him, or he is hurt. "If your child has recently learned to walk down the stairs and someone screams or jumps up to help, he had the idea that life is too dangerous for him. The first time that he decides, with his court to the sink, or wash its diapers in the dishwasher .... If he falls and skins knee, he is a little shocked, but small children do not localize pain very well, so that one or two years old does not feel the pain in his knee right away, and he does not know that endorphins are occur and the pain subside. If the reaction of the adults in the vicinity is to him the feeling of pain and fear, he is learning to challenge and fear of pain. This in turn is connected to the law of attraction to inhibit the child. If the reaction is when he praised, because they tried, and praised for so bravely that he is not expected before the next challenge, but look forward to it. This is also the law of attraction, for the positive result.

We have almost every moment of every day, with either a child has a vision of a goal to strive, or we give him a vision of a disaster, he will also try. It is the law of attraction, even if we do, he was not.

In all fairness, other people can be an obstacle for him. If the babysitter is afraid that any debt bruises on her care or lack of care .... If another child of the baby sitter is hysterical when he falls, it could pick up your child, the fear.

I'm afraid with children, and it is not easy to undo the instillation of fear. A child trusts a parent more than a teacher, babysitter or therapist.

Undo, the fear is a challenge.

Partiallize the task:

I want more about how to do it in the next article, but I will give you some tips so that I can not hang. Climbing up to a gym can be scary monkey, but a tion, and down, until one of the bottom and top and below of it is not. Always clock for the vision. What does the child from the championship. If he other children enjoy climbing and sliding down, or is he motivated. If he hurt other children, he will not be.

Begin. Find a park where children have fun.

Doing a whole Karate Kata like overwhelming, but one step at a time and then a second step to be repeated until the body and cuts in memory, and then the third, and so on, is not overwhelming and the child learns to define the tasks into small, bite-pieces. This is an excellent education.

The next time the child has something to learn, he is convinced that he is capable of learning. It is a picture of himself as someone who learns and is successful in more complex tasks.

Nancy J. Stremmel is the co-owner and developer of: http://www.Mindbridge-LOA.com the collection of information on the law of attraction. She is a writer, licensed social workers, educators, artists and therapists. It believes that everyone can be the law of attraction for them.