This is an exercise to help you win" "the" dream relationship you have always wanted. It could be a little slow (the article, and exercise), but can be very revealing. So here we go.

The first thing you do is analyze your past relationships. What was with the right, but also what was wrong with each one of them, and how it that you personally.

They go as far back as your first crush at 10 years old.

Now, in chronological order (as much as you can remember), you will be on a separate page notebook or Word document for each person.

On every page you write the persons name and then these 4 sections:

1. Negative
2. Positive
3. Memories of the worst things that happened between the two of you
4. Best memories of things that happen

You're one of the most important ingredients in dealing with the Law of Attraction is to know, "" Exactly "," what it is that you want. How can the universe bring you the "perfect" relationship, if you have never beam on what the "perfect" relationship would be for you?

Believe me, by the time you have the first part of the exercise - you definitely have a better idea.

O.K. So here we go.

Write down all the negative qualities of that person that you do not like. For example:

Negative:

Selfish
Irresponsible
Too Clingy
Too Flirty
Unreliable
Irresponsible
Too much in shopping
Too much sport, etc.
(Remember - this has to do with what felt negatively affect you personally - and not how others think abut IT)

Positive

Funny
Daring
Generous
Intelligent
Challenging
Attractive
This interest, etc.
(Again, this has to do with what "you" about the person - not what your best friend or your mother thinks you should enjoy)

Now list the negative memories that you have with this particular person

The time she cheated on me
The time to let me embarrassed for my family or friends
The time they do not show for ....
The time they lied to me ....

Now I have to tell you. This could have a little detail. Some of these things can cause you more embarrassment or even pain. But you need to make these things in the wild. You do not want them to bury or ignore it in you, and I will tell you why. If you have an unconscious fear of these things again and you are consciously or unconsciously, "" worried "about what is happening again - guess what the chances are you will be back for you? If you put the energy" "I do not want them to cheat, I do not want them to cheat "" see what your focus is on! Fraud. Think of this part as a cathartic. As you write each bad memory, you are now expunging it from your experience, only through the act of writing it.

Continue to write about all the positive memories you have about the relationship.

The time she surprised me with ....
The laughs, when we had ......
How they used to give me coffee every morning ..
Love notes, they would go about ...
Great Phone-Sex ...

Anyway ... You get the picture.

Now this can be for each person you are with romantisch. O.K. Now you have your plan right in front of you. You know what you do and do not want. Now you are beginning a new page. On this page you will be to write:

What is happiness to me in Universe Delivering the perfect partner

Now go back to all your lists and write down all the things that positive aspect in your categories. Then you write:

The person, I will be in a relationship with is:

Funny
Daring
Generous
Intelligent
Challenging
Attractive
Have the same interests, etc.

Take all the positive from the lists (because some people had good qualities that others do not, and you want them all!) According to this list together, what things to add that you probably never heard of someone, but always wanted.

Note: Be careful how you write. If you want your dream person like George Clooney and Pam Anderson did not write that in your letter that you want, "", da moves "to them, as you are, or George Pam. Because let's get real - it There are not too many Georges "or PAMs" around. But if you get the same level of physical attractiveness of your personal dream - what does it matter what their actual physical properties?

O.K. Now you're laser beam on what you want.

Next step:

Set the paper aside for the moment and take a new leaf. On this you write:

If the perfect person to show up now, I would need to:

Lose 20 pounds
Clean or paint my apartment
Clean out my car
Get a new toothbrush
Place in a drawer of the cupboard for them in my house
Buy new sexy underwear or pajamas to me a
Etc..

Now let me tell you why this is important. I have a previous post about how a girlfriend and I discovered this little trick entirely coincidental.

Even if they say they are ready for their dream relationship, there was actually one million reasons why they are "technically" not. She had a whole list of things she wanted to improve, or what is worse, she is hiding from her dream person. (Your Messy apartment, her hello Kitty bedding, etc.)

So, even if they say they had finished, she had unconsciously a laundry list of reasons why they really do not. We found that there was that "list" "That was with the back of meeting" him ".

So ask yourself that same question. If your dream person to show up tomorrow, would you be ready for them? Would you be proud to show them where you live? Do you have space for them where you live, so they could use a drawer or cabinet in your place if you wanted them to stay on. Would you feel comfortable walking around naked in front of them? Would you be proud to show them how and what you eat? Feel claim to a bad habit of them, smoking or excessive drinking or whatever?

You see the time to these issues is now! You do not have to wait until they actually appear before it in the "impression" Overdrive. "If there is something you would do different in your life to do what best for your new partner, and then start preparing physically for their arrival now!

At the gym, lose the weight until you clean your room!

There are three advantages to this. The first is that you not only what you want to say Universe - You are physically measures shows that you are so sure that your dream is on the way that you are ready for them.

The second advantage is that if one of these "bad habits" you have subconsciously held back moves that the person that you remove the road blocks unconscious.

The third advantage is, if you feel that you want all these changes for another person - it means that even without realizing it - these changes are important to you, otherwise you do not worry about it at first line.

Thus, by using them now, you will automatically make you feel better. They feel stronger, cleaner, better organized, you will look better. Their spiritual vibration increases, and it is this higher level that you want to vibrating level switch on when the winning your dream partner.

O.K. So now, where are we?

We have two lists. This shows that exactly what you want in a relationship and a second, the actions that you go to start taking on "ready" for that person.

Continue with step three: (The most important and probably the most difficult step)

Get busy enjoying every moment in your life now and forget about the present, which, where and when you go to that person.

You see, you already have the two most important parts of the Law of Attraction work.

You have now clearly on what you want and have it
You get ready, it
The third step is now in the hands of Universe - the supply of IT.

Now get out of your own way and let their Universe thing!

Through the meeting at disturbing or try the issue, you are doing exactly the opposite of what one should do to!

With the thought "I still have not met!" "They prefer" not be satisfied! " "With the fear of them" does not appear, nor "" You prefer "does not appear, nor". "

And then there's the rough "" smell desperation "We have it all there at one time or another, as most of us have also been on the receiving side.

The pushy, needy, too much - too early to feel. Despair about the person wants it - for the choking person on the receiving side. Remember, we are energetic beings. We can change the energy from others, even if it is subconscious.

Let It Go and appreciate all the great things that exist in your life now! Do not worry - the right person will appear!

See it, which would you more? The lonely desperate person sitting in the corner, or the happy, busy, purposeful, who enjoys every moment in life?

Or is it so. If you meet this person tomorrow, you're a big man to round. If you do not mean that the person for a few months, you are still a great person to have around!

Either way you win and you are satisfied!

So go and make your lists and remember, in the order.

"Questions", be prepared to receive and then by road Universe! You are with your dream before you know it.

Happy Creating!

Janeen Clark is a spiritual life coach, teaching, studying and applying the Law of Attraction for almost 20 years. If you want to read more Manifestation Exercises that you could put into practice now, please visit her daily blog on the very happy people